The minister doesn’t need to know that sometimes I create invite lists on the church program while listening to the sermon. When I’m sitting in a quiet place, a plethora of names pops into my mind. I “day dream” about engaged conversation around the table with a few or many friends. Although I’m constantly organizing a social life, there are never enough days and thus, my invite list keeps growing.

Every person represents a new world waiting to be discovered!

I admire the host who brings a varied group of guests together. We know a couple who every fall hosts twenty guests for dinner composed of friends from many “walks of life”. As a guest it’s fun to meet new people and get to know acquaintances better.

No offense to those we see all the time… it’s a little boring to invite the same people over and over. Although inviting those we know best translates to a more casual gathering, it’s possible to keep entertaining relaxed with those we don’t know as well, too.

Who would you like to know more? Who haven’t you ever invited to a social gathering? Look at the different parts of your life and create a “master list”. Be willing to go out of your comfort zone a little bit! Jump into the “new world”.

What employees might benefit from stronger working relationships? Are there departments that need to understand each other better? Imagine time together with co-workers over a meal, a late morning coffee break or even an after work “happy hour” with a focus on simply getting to know them better. Success in any endeavor starts with the relationship!

Whether it’s personal or work-related, when entertaining, be genuine and true to your own style. If you’re striving for a casual evening with a “help yourself buffet”, for example, keep it that way. Your willingness to host and a clear intention will inform the right venue and format for a fun gathering, regardless of a guest list’s complexity.

Strive to be present and immerse yourself fully in the abundant conversation! No worries about how the group might mix. When considering your next gathering, head away from the comfort zone. Surprise yourself. If you’re like me, your invite list will never stop growing!