Interacting with others is a multi-dimensional experience! On Wednesday night The Beehive Collective, “an all-volunteer swarm of educators, artists, and activists using images to communicate” presented “Mesoamérica Resiste”[1], a large intricate illustration depicting indigenous cultures and over 400 species of insects, animals and plants, resisting global systems. Examining the poster’s details, really studying the myriad of characters, emoted insightful responses. Participants looked intently to discern the stories being shared.
Similarly, when we draw on our ability to literally see another person, it can strengthen our understanding of an interaction. This is why “face to face” meetings are often more effective than digital communication. There’s nothing like looking into someone’s eyes and or being welcomed by a smile. Conversely we’re well aware of discomfort when someone’s stance includes crossed arms, a “do not enter” sign.
True, we can quickly judge a person by what we see in their appearance. It’s well known that we have seven seconds to make a first impression. [2] Although first impressions matter, particularly at a job interview, it’s our physical presence that creates effect.
By physical presence I’m referring to the subtle energy we emit from our bodies. Slumping, for example, communicates fatigue or lack of confidence. How we show up in our bodies communicates positive or negative vibes. When conversing we want to concurrently observe and feel the physical presence of another person’s juju! Our bodies hold sway in how we’ll be received and or receptive to others. Stand firmly on the earth with an open heart.
As much as we thoroughly enjoyed the stunning “Mesoamerica Resiste” presentation, life can’t be fully represented by a flat drawing. Our interactions are inter-dimensional, rich, constantly three D! We draw from our senses and deep well of knowledge.
This week, in addition to thoughtful listening, embrace with your eyes those in front of you. Let the lovely (or not) presence of a co-worker, friend, and or family member inform a response. Smell a pretty rose, relish the taste of your food and “Let the Sun Shine In”!
Year of Confab 2017
#23 How do you like to stand? Do you lean on one leg, cross your arms, stand straight?
[1] Mesoamérica Resiste is the final installment in a trilogy of graphics about corporate globalization and militarization in the Americas.
[2] http://www.businessinsider.com/only-7-seconds-to-make-first-impression-2013-4
